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Your Business is Killing Your Life
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I've always been a worrier. As far back as I can remember, I've had anxiety about the future. There's definitely a strong genetic element in this and it's taken a lot of work to get it under some degree of control in my life. Most business owners I speak to are the same. Worried about signing their next deal, how AI will impact their business, whether they're losing an edge to their competitors. Insecurity controls them. They're often motivated by the desire to "prove people wrong" as though that will lead to contentment further down the line. But the truth is, it never does. You arrive at your destination and then simply change the goalposts because "that's just what entrepreneurs do". My question to you - and myself - is: when are you going to start living? Ya know, doing things, outside of "work", that actually make us happy and fulfilled? Spending time in nature; raising kids; socialising with other people about things that aren't related to sales & taxes; cooking all day and having a drink with great friends & family as opposed to relying on meal prep. What sparked these random thoughts in me? I've been re-reading (for the 3rd time) my favourite book of all time, Sapiens, and had to pause this morning when skimming this page:
It's about the transition that happened during the Agricultural Revolution when humans moved away from foraging, and how it led to worse quality outcomes in life. Despite it leading to a rampant increase in disease, less play, and more hardship, before long, we had no recollection of what life used to be life and just accepted it. The parallels in business are uncanny. Except today, we have access to so many resources and information that there's really no excuse to relentlessly pursue down a destructive path with no consideration for where it's taking us. If that's you (and it's certainly been me - still working on it), slow the **** down one day and just ask yourself, "Why am I doing this?". Spend one full day mulling over this and mapping your life out across these 3 tenets:
And then analyse what's working, what's not, and where you're excessively spending time and compromising other facets of "success". I promise you, it'll reveal some hard truths. And then, of course, you need to get to work on them. Otherwise, what's the point in all this? |
Adam Kitchen
Helping service-based business owners build incredibly lean, profitable entities in an era of AI 🤖 with weekly strategy drops and real-life experience in the trenches.
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